TMM,Wednesday 4 April 2012
Skill to harness our emotions still not learnt
(Take a personality test)
Blood tests are common. They are necessary for those who wish to recover or maintain their physical health.
Similarly, personality tests can help those who wish to perform better or develop their full potential.
This is essential, as our education system from schools to colleges, lack emphasis on personal development.
As a result, we may produce graduates who may be learned in their field of studies but are not considered educated when they do not display courtesy.
Lack of courtesy is prevalent at all levels of our society causing disharmony in many homes, work and public places.
The root of all this is our unbridled emotions. We tend to react on how we feel rather than what we think.
We are simply a product of our own experience and environment, and our perception is shaped by these two factors. Thus, our interpretations often differ with others.
However, when it comes to personality styles, the experts are able to place people into a few broad categories such as those who are more open, accommodating, analytical, relational or decisive.
A proper test can identify correctly our personality profile. Contrary to popular belief, our profile is not totally confined to only one style of personality.
Although we are stereotyped by our dominant personality profile, we are also likely to have some traits found in others.
In addition, there is no good or bad personality as each has its own strengths and weaknesses. Recognising the difference in personalities is vital for building better relationships with others.
As much as we enjoy developing our strengths, it is also imperative that we address our weaknesses where there is a greater room for improvement.
The most suitable personality tests for Malaysians have already been developed by our academics from several local public universities.
These psychometric assessments have received international acclaim and should be put to greater use, as they are effective tools for raising the level of courtesy and productivity.
A blood or personality test may tell us something more about ourselves. Change can only be effected when we realised the consequences and take the necessary action.
Attending one or several workshops on emotional intelligence, interpersonal communication skills and courtesy can help us reach the tipping point sooner.
Human beings are empowered by emotions that can be creative such as love and passion or destructive such as hate and anger.
We will be much more successful and happy when we harness our emotions to be our source of strength and not allow it to be our weakness.
It is a skill and habit that can only be acquired through training and practice.
YS Chan
Kuala Lumpur
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