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Culture Shock: Malaysians friendly but lack courtesy

TMM,Tuesday 22 May 2012



Malaysian participants at conferences and seminars can give a culture shock to even the best foreign speakers. At a recent automotive conference, the renowned speaker who is also a world best selling author of The KPI Book was greeted with silence when he threw a question to the floor.

No one attempted to reply and the participants he looked at for answers avoided eye contact! He was deeply hurt but carried on professionally. During the morning break, he could not get his cup of coffee as he was bombarded with people trying to ask questions.

The same thing happened when he resumed his talk after the break. Again, it was total silence when he asked a question. During lunch break, he was swarmed with people asking questions.

Malaysians are naturally friendly but lack courtesy to the extent that it can be perceived as rude, especially by foreigners.

It will be tragic if we choose to say nothing and allow the fear of being ridiculed to be omnipresent in our Malaysian society.

As rightly pointed out by the speaker who related his experience in a published letter, our country may be left behind if Malaysians don’t ask questions during training or conference.

It is common for speakers to wait agonisingly after their presentations for questions, which usually snowball towards the end of the Q&A session.

As such, it is incumbent upon organisers to appoint some members of the audience to start the ball rolling by raising questions or offer replies to the speakers to avoid awkward situations.

Perhaps, the Malaysia Conventions and Exhibitions Bureau under the Malaysia Tourism Promotion Board can provide a template for organisers to use as a guide.

Conferences and seminars must be organised efficiently for their sustainability and effectively for the participants.

As they cater for up-market tourists and industry leaders, their quality is a clear indication of the progress we have made as a nation and the direction our country is heading.

YS Chan
Kuala Lumpur

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